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Ten List of Flirting Tips
By
Fran Greene
10.
Flirting is an attitude: A good flirt is self-confident and
not afraid to take risks. Be enthusiastic and positive, it
works!
9.
Start a conversation: The best opening line is saying hello.
Talk about the surroundings, ask a question, ask for help,
state an opinion.
8.
Have fun: Be playful, light-hearted and spontaneous. Show
your vulnerability.
7.
Use props: Never leave home without a prop. Props are natural
conversation starters. They encourage conversation and others
will be compelled to start talking to you. Great props include:
dogs, kids, unusual jewelry, a fabulous scent, a sweatshirt
with your favorite passion, interesting ties, hats, or an
interesting book or newspaper.
6.
Be the host: Change your behavior from the role of guest
to host. You are not the passive person in waiting, but rather
the welcome committee.
5.
Make the first move: Move closer to the person you want to
meet. Say hello!
4.
Listen: You have two ears and one mouth because you should
listen twice as much as you speak. Listening is a true art.
Your flirting partner will be drawn to you. Everyone loves
to be heard.
3.
Eye contact: Make eye contact, but please look your partner
in the eye gently (no more than 2-4 seconds) and then glance
away. Don’t stare – it’s a turn off.
2.
Compliment: Compliment your flirting partner. The best compliments
have the element of surprise. The "flirtee" will
know that you really noticed them. Remember, your compliments
must be honest, sincere and genuine. When you receive a compliment
the best response is merely, Thank You!
1.
Smile: It is contagious. It will make you so much more approachable.
A smile lights up your face and draws people to you. You will
be a people magnet. Try it!
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